It is possible to forget that your subconscious mind is not aware of your true feelings and your enemy which leads to sabotaging yourself and affects your life. The important thing in our lives is the frustration we get out of our failures. As a result, we are creating an enemy within us with the belief that we cannot succeed in our life either we are incapable or have bad luck.

We must learn to accept our capabilities, and powers in us, it is not surprising that all of us are capable of everything in our lives and indeed that we have our weak points as well. Therefore, instead of reminding ourselves of weak points, we learn to remember our stronger points and try to use that to progress and build our confidence in them.

We are born the same if we do not want to take responsibility for doing anything. It is purely your idle thoughts. Say, you want to have a dream job, and in the end, you got the job offer, but you do not want to accept it because you are in your comfort zone and do not want to leave and take a more considerable responsibility due to procrastination.

 If you let this happen again with an opportunity to say attending events regarding your job because you cannot face public speaking, thinking that they might ask you to speak at the event, this turns into a habit. You will continue to procrastinate, and this self- sabotage. Most of the time, people are not aware of their self-sabotaging pattern because the effects not known instantly will take a chance to build up and become visible, then it might be too late to rectify the situation.  

The way that you do not want to accept the job offer and say to you let me wait for another better chance, without even realizing as the time goes by, your ability will go down, and you might not get another opportunity. The truth here is the self- disbelief in the subconscious mind, but learn to take action regardless of the self-belief or not and be happy and enjoy if you are the winner otherwise.