Take decisive action if you have been struggling for a while

How to break the fear and get the confidence to take decisive action?

Firstly, they need to start to think positively that they can do it without expecting other people to get them out of their trap. The more you expect, the more you become emotionally dependent on others that are again another way of self-sabotaging. Expecting help from others to help you in your difficulties without paying it back in some ways will make someone feel lower than the others and lead to self-sabotage.

Have you ever self- destroyed yourself?

 Nevertheless, do you know how to come out of it?

 The best way to get out of the situation is to accept your self-sabotaging behavior and become acutely aware of it. When you become entirely mindful of your wrongdoings, then you will start to plan ways to overcome that sort of behavior. You must develop a conscious awareness of your thoughts, emotions, and actions. There might be situations in that you might try but still be unable to accomplish your task to achieve that goal. Then, you go back to the past where you failed and analyze the situation and the things that could have avoided in your past failure are. It will be a better idea once you have studied and found the remedy to apply it correctly for the new accomplishment.

·        Are you struggling to grow your business for a couple of years, not knowing how to achieve success?

·        Have you analyzed the reasons for the failure?

·        Is it a mistake on your part?

·        Could that have been avoided or changed the style of doing your business?

If you have not analyzed these questions and put them right, you are wasting time and money and self-sabotaging yourself if you leave it for too long you will conclude that you are not good at running a business. That way, your goal will not achieve, and your success is blocked. When you are starting to do something, you should have prepared yourself to face the obstacles and remove them in the long run, and if not, it escalates and make you lose confidence.

To overcome situations like these, ask your subconscious mind the questions and try to find the answers. You need to be in a secluded area and ask yourself what you are afraid of for not acting. 

·        What is the reason for your fear?

·        What is the exact reason for my failure? 

·        How can I find the solution for it?  

Your answer might be I do not have money or support; if that is the case, how can I become a winner. Instead of thinking along those lines that you cannot win because you do not have support, why not take it as an inspiration, learn to work hard, and prove to yourself that you can do it and to the others who are supposed to have given you support. It is effortless to let yourself down and sabotage yourself but fighting back is the hardest thing. There is no need to hold you back in the future, started writing your issues daily, you might feel hard to write at the outset but if you keep practicing and take more time to write that will make you a better person as your subconscious mind is now free of all unhappy thoughts.